Years ago, I learned from the late Rabbi David Wolfe-Blank about a spiritual practice of reviewing one’s life in seven year increments, a Sephirah (counting) of life. It’s a great exercise to do around your birthday or anytime you want to take stock.
The Shmittah or Sabbatical Year is a biblically-mandated practice of letting the earth lie fallow and rest every seventh year. We counted 7×7 cycles of years and then had the Jubilee, the fiftieth year. Each year, we count 7 days times x 7 weeks during the period from Passover to Shavuot, known as Sephirat Ha-Omer, and seen by the mystics as a time for introspection for personal growth. This practice of sacred review and counting can also be applied to the cycles of our lives.
There are many ways to do this review. It’s nice to take some time to relax and allow images of the past to surface. You could also look up some music and images of those years online, or look through old family albums for inspiration.
If your mind tends to be more linear, make a time line for each seven year period, and fill in important events in your life and the larger world. You could also record by hand in a journal with blank pages, perhaps in your Spiritual Journal. Head each 2 page spread page with a stretch of seven years: 1-7, 8-14, 15-21, etc., to your current age. You can then divide each of the facing pages in half horizontally, thus creating four quadrants across the two pages. You might label these: People, Places, Experiences & Milestones, World Events. Or you might want to be more free form and poetic, collecting words and images to describe what you experienced and learned during that seven year cycle. If you are more of a visual person, you might want to add photos to your journal or create a collage of physical photos, or digitally using an app. If you like to touch and hold things, you might create treasure boxes of mementos from each period.
You can also create pages for envisioning the upcoming cycles of seven that you hope to live and write or illustrate your aspirations for the future. I put the Hebrew letters בע”ה at the top right corner of the page to stand for “Be-Ezrat Hashem,” with the help of God.
There are so many ways to see our lives. Sometimes we view our years in a linear way, like a timeline. But we could see our lives as a flower blooming, an unfolding, a journey, a flowing stream in which our soul stands still amidst the constant changes. After my mother died, I had a vision of my life and my ancestor’s lives like a Torah scroll unscrolling.
The Jewish gift of time is to see it both as a linear progression— a vision of a better tomorrow—and to treasure time as a sacred cycle of recurring themes and truths that we revisit each year. Rabbi Michael Strassfeld combined the two paradigms by describing Jewish time as a kind of rising helix, like the spiral ramp at the Guggenheim Museum in New York City. In the annual cycle of the Jewish holidays, we keep returning to the same lessons with the seasons of each year, but each year we do it from a new vantage point that allows us a larger perspective. And so over the course of our lives, imagine the seven year cycles as turnings that take us to a new level, returning to many recurring themes of our lives but with greater perspective.
Flower on the Big Island of Hawaii, Elisheva Danan
Ponder an enigma on timeliness, or return to the Gateway of Seasons.
Dear Julie, This is such a meaningful and beautiful practice that is totally new to me. Not the seven year cycle or the reflection so built into our Jewish lens of time, space, creativity, growth, and discernment – but the Shmita review you share from David Wolfe-Blank, z”l (and how blessed you are to have known and studied with him while so many of us benefit from his written material without the neshama who channeled them). Thank you so much for the way that you generously share your wisdom and your artistic lens with the world. Shanah tovah u’metukah … may it be a year of release and space for new growth, health and wellbeing.
Rabbi Jessica, Thank you for your kind words. I wish that I had had the chance to learn more in person from Rabbi David Wolfe-Blank. I do remember when I first arrived at Elat Chayyim
retreat center, that I was standing in the office with my bags, that he gently invited me to lay my burdens down and to help me with carry them – in a way that implied that he could see that my baggage was more than suitcases. I used to pour over his Meta-Parshiyot, creative and deep commentaries on the Torah portion, and also on the prayers. He also kindly gave me permission to use things from his High Holy Day Machzor, and I used many over the years. Anyway, the same wishes and blessings of a good and sweet New Year go to you and yours!
This is idea of viewing and processing our lives in seven year cycles is fascinating. It allows us to zoom out one cycle beyond the annual chesbon ha-nefesh/shuvah have process we do during the high holidays. This gives us greater, broader perspective on where we have been, where we are going.
It would be interesting to notice which sephirotic quality/theme each year had in a seven year cycle and notice patterns–which sephirot do we tend to gravitate to and which sephirot are not represented? This could show us where we need to focus our energies in the upcoming cycle. Thank you for sharing this teaching!
That’s a very interesting added layer! For those who aren’t familiar, you can learn about the Sephirot (divine emanations/qualities) in the counting of the annual Omer period, seven times seven weeks between the holidays Passover and Shavuot, and consider applying them to your self-examination of 7 year periods: http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/277116/jewish/Introduction.htm